Men in society is slowly being replaced,
With independent women and single mothers.
Ripping the heart out of the average American family.
Men in society is being tested and overlooked.
Now days women seem to be doing it all.
Women are overlooking or not acknowledging the role of men.
A man is a protector, a provider and a companion.
Society tells men it’s their job to provide and protect their family.
As a man that’s what’s expected of you.
It’s like a double edge sword.
If a man doesn’t live up to society’s expectations,
He’s considered less than a man.
When a woman takes on that same role,
She’s looked at as noble, strong and unbreakable.
In some instantance’s she’s more of a man, than a man.
She’s not expected to take on that role, like a man is required to.
But she’s given more credit when she does,
vs. what the common man does for his family in that same situation.
The woman is looked at as if she’s heaven sent.
Giving the men the notion that we are not needed.
As well as teaching the future generation that’s the way life goes.
In a relationship it’s 50/50.
No one is higher than the other.
But now a days whoever brings in the biggest paycheck controls the home.
Leaving us as people to re-examine our values in life.
A man is not higher or lower than a woman.
As well as a woman is not lower or higher than a man either.
But in our personal life a woman is looked at,
as the one who controls the home.
Leaving men to be in the work field, controlling the income.
A man’s role is limited and the credit,
he receives is short lived and unappreciated.
The father’s day holiday is overshadowed,
by mother’s day and dead beat dads
Rarely is he acknowledged for raising his family.
As men we must not let these issues discourage us from being men.
Stand strong and show society we do belong here.
If we continue to educate and teach our kids,
Then the future generation will recognize the worth of men.
Then and only then will the society of men be stronger than ever.
But we must take care of our responsibilities as men and as fathers.
So many of our women are use,
to taking care of their families without a man.
It’s time we show them how much we love them, and provide for our family.
Let’s bring family values back, we all must step up to the plate as men.
It’s time we teach by example.
About the Author:
“My name is Darrell Freeman Jr. & I’m from Crowley Louisiana. I currently reside in Lake Charles, Louisiana. I write from the heart. I wanna inspire others to look beyond their circumstances and strive for bigger & better things. I try to write about topics others are afraid to talk about….I’m currently working on starting my own business — Freeman’s World — which is a variety of businesses dedicated to giving back & uplifting the community….I wanna encourage everyone to follow your dreams. No matter how tough the road up ahead is always have faith and continue to push towards excellence.”
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